Tame Your Thoughts by Max Lucado Three Tools to Renew Your Mind and Transform Your Life
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Tame Your Thoughts (2025) presents a Christian perspective on the link between thinking patterns and wellbeing. It outlines biblical tools aimed at transforming destructive mental habits and incorporates neuroscience-informed strategies for challenges such as worry, guilt, and anxiety. The perspective emphasizes that, since God designed the brain, it can be retrained through deliberate thought management grounded in biblical principles.
You spend much of your life inside your own mind, yet the character of that inner space is rarely explored. Thoughts drift in, opinions settle, and old stories repeat until they feel true. In fact, researchers at USC’s Laboratory of NeuroImaging reckon our brains process around 70,000 thoughts daily. That’s a lot of thoughts! Thoughts that inspire, help, remind, remember, and, yes, also harm. All too often, our thoughts get twisted into destructive loops – the same worries, regrets, and fears cycling through our minds over and over.
The good news? We have neuroplasticity on our side. In other words, your brain can rewire itself at any age, creating new pathways that override old patterns. When you deliberately interrupt a negative thought spiral and choose a different mental direction, you’re not just changing your mood – you’re physically reshaping your brain, one thought at a time.
This lesson introduces powerful cognitive strategies, grounded in Christian spirituality, for reversing and reframing negative thoughts, in ways that will change both your brain and your life. Let’s get right into it.
In 1961, Air Force Brigadier General Godfrey McHugh, also known by the memorable nickname "God", pitched an idea to President Kennedy. The White House needed a crisis command center, a place where critical information could be filtered and crucial decisions made. Kennedy approved, and within two weeks, a White House bowling alley became the legendary Situation Room.
What if you already had your own situation room? Well, it turns out you do – it sits in the six inches between your ears, processing, evaluating, and deciding, all the time. And like the White House version, your mental command center was designed by God.
Yet, unlike the White House, which maintains strict security protocols, we often let any random thought waltz into our mental situation room. Every worry gets a hearing, every doubt gets a vote. The White House situation room works because it filters the information it considers. Quality control matters, because good decisions depend on reliable information.
You need to apply similar filters to your mental situation room. Effective mental filtering starts with awareness. Monitor your default thoughts for just one day and notice those automatic negative patterns – the self-criticism, the catastrophic predictions, that harsh internal voice. These patterns didn’t appear overnight. They were trained into you through repeated experiences, building what we might call cognitive strongholds that feel impossible to escape.
So, what do you need to do when you notice these thought patterns emerging? Well, Christian thinking offers a powerful filtering framework that the author calls picky thinking. Instead of asking “What would Jesus do?” try asking “What would Jesus think?” Since actions flow from thoughts, transforming our thinking transforms our living. When that inner critic pipes up with thoughts like “You’re hopeless” or “You’ll never change,” challenge it against Scripture’s authority. Your situation room deserves the same security clearance standards as Washington’s – only verified, God-approved information gets through.
Let’s now meet Eric and Megan. Five years married and ready to put down roots, they bought their dream home. They dove into renovations with enthusiasm, tearing down walls and ripping up floors to create their ideal space. Then the aching and sickness began. Sore joints, migraines, brain fog – they felt decades older overnight. Hidden behind those walls was toxic mold, releasing invisible particles every time they opened up the house.
Eric and Megan’s story mirrors what can happen in our own minds. Our mental structures are often underpinned by toxic thoughts that release harmful fumes. We don’t notice we’re absorbing them until they have wrought havoc on our wellbeing, and anxiety, depression, or despair has taken hold.
The apostle Paul recognized this when he urged us to “take your stand against the devil’s schemes.” Satan operates like that hidden mold – unseen but systematically destructive, following the same three-stage contamination pattern every time. We call it the UFO sequence, and once you recognize it, you can stop the poisoning process cold.
First comes the U – untruth. Satan plants a lie, like “You’ll never amount to anything” or “Everyone thinks you’re incompetent.” Yes, it might feel true in the moment, but in reality, it’s poison disguised as insight. If you don’t challenge this immediately, it graduates to UFO stage two: the F for false narrative. Now that single lie becomes your internal soundtrack, playing endlessly. “I always mess things up. I’m destined to fail. Why even try?” The untruth has carved a mental rut so deep you can’t climb out.
This sets up the devastating final stage – O for overreaction. When life presents normal challenges, you don’t respond from truth anymore – you react from that poisoned false narrative. A delayed email becomes proof you’re incompetent. A friend’s distracted response confirms you’re unlikeable. You’re no longer living in reality – you’re now trapped in Satan’s alternate universe.
Your job is to intercept these UFOs before they land. When that first untruth tries to establish a beachhead in your mind, grab it by the collar and march it directly to Jesus. Ask him point-blank: “Is this thought authorized to be here?” His authority dismantles the entire sequence before it can take root.
This may sound strange, but it turns out you’re a lot like a cow. So is your neighbor, your coworker, your best friend, and even your spouse.
What connects us to our bovine buddies? We ruminate. Ever wonder what those cows are doing as they stand peacefully in pastures? They’re chewing their cud – that partially digested feed they swallow, regurgitate, re-chew, and re-swallow in an endless cycle. Chew, swallow, repeat. Ad nauseam.
We mirror this process with our thoughts. We think, rethink, consider, reconsider, ponder, contemplate, deliberate, fixate, and ruminate endlessly. This mental chewing isn’t inherently problematic – we’re designed as thinking beings. The issue emerges when we’re ruminating on toxic thoughts rather than healthy ones. Dwelling on hopeful, God-honoring truths makes us flourish, while churning bitter, negative thoughts makes us bitter and negative.
Think of your mind as a lawn infested with grass burrs – those sticky, painful weeds that cling to everything. Destructive thoughts operate identically, creating predictable patterns that sour moods and embitter hearts. You might attempt quick fixes like positive thinking seminars or motivational books, essentially mowing over the problem. The weeds vanish temporarily, but inevitably return because their root systems remain intact.
God proposes a superior approach: systematic extraction and intentional replanting. While earthly gardeners might forcibly remove weeds, our heavenly Father invites collaboration. He supplies the tools – his Word – but demands our active participation in the uprooting process. Some thought patterns have developed deep root networks over decades, requiring genuine effort to eliminate.
The critical second phase involves replanting with God’s Word. James describes this as receiving “the implanted word” that transforms our inner world like seeds taking root in fertile soil. When destructive thoughts like “I’m worthless” or “Nothing ever works out for me” get uprooted, you must immediately plant scriptural truth in that mental space. Replace “I’m a failure” with “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” Or try substituting “God has forgotten me” with “He will never leave me nor forsake me.” It’s not enough to weed the lawn – you need to nourish it with the word of God.
Okay, you know the three steps for taming your thoughts – practice picky thinking, avoid UFOs, uproot toxic thoughts, and replant your garden with God’s word. Now, let’s look at how you can use them to get out of some common thought ruts, starting with anxiety. It manifests differently for everyone – maybe you’re the person who lies awake catastrophizing about tomorrow’s presentation, or you check your phone compulsively for bad news, or your stomach churns every time you hear an unexpected knock at the door. But God offers a way out of this rut.
Understanding how anxiety operates is crucial to breaking free from it. Anxiety hijacks that UFO pattern we discussed, but in a particularly insidious way. It starts with an untruth that feels completely reasonable in the moment, usually along the lines of “Something terrible is about to happen – and I won’t be able to handle it.” This initial worry then grows into a false narrative that plays on repeat, like “I’m powerless against whatever disaster is coming my way.” Finally, the exhausting overreaction arrives with thoughts like “I must anticipate and control every possible negative outcome to keep myself safe.” Unlike animals who naturally return to baseline once immediate danger passes, we humans get mentally stuck, rehearsing threats that may never actually materialize.
This cycle becomes self-reinforcing because anxiety fundamentally tricks us into believing the world is spinning dangerously out of control.
But here’s the thing: you can break this destructive pattern by working with your brain’s natural ability to form new neural pathways. The key is challenging that initial anxious thought before it gains momentum – when worry comes knocking at your mental door, pause and ask whether this thought is based on current evidence or whether you’re catastrophizing about something that hasn’t happened. Taking these anxious thoughts immediately to God in prayer also interrupts the spiral. Remember that God controls the universe down to every falling sparrow. When you submit to His mercy, your anxiety loses its power.
Perhaps most powerfully, you can systematically uproot complaints and replant them with gratitude, since your brain literally cannot process anxiety and genuine thankfulness at the same time. This practice gradually rewires your neural pathways, strengthening rational thinking centers while calming your brain’s panic responses, creating lasting change rather than just temporary relief.
If the emotions were famous athletes then guilt would be Muhammad Ali. Coming at you with that one-two punch of could’ve and should’ve, getting into the ring with guilt can leave you totally knocked out.
Guilt begins with a real transgression – something you actually did wrong. You said something hurtful, acted selfishly, broke a promise, or violated your conscience. That initial pang of guilt is actually healthy – it’s your moral compass working properly, alerting you that you’ve stepped outside God’s design for your life.
Picture guilt as a heavy backpack you carry everywhere. At first, you barely notice the weight, but over time that pack becomes unbearable. You start avoiding certain paths because you know you can’t handle the climb. Eventually, you’re so focused on managing the burden that you forget what it feels like to walk freely. This creates the perfect conditions for a guilt UFO to circle overhead. The untruth whispers, “I’m beyond God’s grace.” That grows into the false narrative that either God is unfair to you or you’re unfit for him. Your guilt has become shame.
But guilt and shame are siblings, not twins. Guilt tells you when you’ve done something wrong – shame tells you something is wrong with you. But God wants to use healthy guilt to guide you toward him – it’s meant to be a temporary alarm that drives you to confession and restoration. Shame, however, is designed to keep you trapped in self-condemnation. While guilt says “I made a mistake,” shame declares “I am a mistake.” Shame forms an apt acronym: Self-Hatred At My Expense. It’s the voice that tells you that you’re fundamentally flawed, hopeless, and unworthy of love or forgiveness. This is never God’s voice.
The antidote is confession. First, agree about your sin’s reality without minimizing or comparing yourself to others. God’s standard is perfection, and we all fall short. Second, agree about the remedy – Jesus personally carried our sins so we could be forgiven. Third, celebrate sin’s complete removal. When we confess, God doesn’t just forgive – he cleanses us from all wrongdoing.
Have you ever spent time with a toddler? Life’s a crack-up to them. Everything from splashing in a bathtub to blowing dandelions makes them laugh until they can’t breathe, then laugh again. How long has it been since you really laughed or found joy in life? If the answer is longer than you’d like, then it’s time to confront the thought ruts that leave you struggling to find joy.
Studies show only 33 percent of Americans describe themselves as happy. That’s hardly surprising. We keep searching for joy in all the wrong places – commercials promise it’ll come with the right hand cream, mattress, or car. But authentic joy isn’t found in circumstances – it’s anchored in something deeper.
Jesus offers a different kind of joy – courageous joy that doesn’t depend on approval, possessions, or people’s loyalty. Even his own family didn’t believe in him, he had nowhere to lay his head, and his closest friends betrayed him. Yet Scripture says, “for the joy set before Him He endured the cross.” His joy was unshakable because it was rooted in his relationship with the Father, not in changing circumstances.
The beautiful truth? Joy is a skill we can develop through neuroplasticity. Just as muscle builders develop impressive physiques by lifting weights, we can develop brighter outlooks by practicing thought management. When Jeremiah felt overwhelmed, he made a conscious decision, proclaiming “This I call to mind, and therefore I have hope: The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases.”
To implement these truths in your own life, consider three practical steps. First, assess your joy level honestly – are you focusing on what’s not happening instead of what is happening? Next, believe that joy is possible – problems have no more power over us than we allow them to have. Finally, call out for help. You’re just an answered prayer away from discovering that your collapsed dreams might become the foundation for something even better. Ask God to replace your circumstance-dependent joy with courageous, contagious joy that can’t be taken away.
In this lesson to Tame Your Thoughts by Max Lucado, you’ve learned that three Christian-based cognitive strategies enable mental transformation.
First, you discovered that picky thinking works by filtering thoughts like a mental air traffic controller – and helps you challenge negative patterns against biblical truth. Once you’ve set up your filter, you need to avoid UFOs – where untruths become false narratives leading to overreaction – by taking destructive thoughts to Jesus for authorization. Finally, you’ve got to uproot toxic thought patterns and immediately replant them with Scripture. When taken together, these neuroplasticity-based techniques can rewire the brain and address struggles like anxiety, guilt, and lost joy.
Tame Your Thoughts (2025) presents a Christian perspective on the link between thinking patterns and wellbeing. It outlines biblical tools aimed at transforming destructive mental habits and incorporates neuroscience-informed strategies for challenges such as worry, guilt, and anxiety. The perspective emphasizes that, since God designed the brain, it can be retrained through deliberate thought management grounded in biblical principles.
You spend much of your life inside your own mind, yet the character of that inner space is rarely explored. Thoughts drift in, opinions settle, and old stories repeat until they feel true. In fact, researchers at USC’s Laboratory of NeuroImaging reckon our brains process around 70,000 thoughts daily. That’s a lot of thoughts! Thoughts that inspire, help, remind, remember, and, yes, also harm. All too often, our thoughts get twisted into destructive loops – the same worries, regrets, and fears cycling through our minds over and over.
The good news? We have neuroplasticity on our side. In other words, your brain can rewire itself at any age, creating new pathways that override old patterns. When you deliberately interrupt a negative thought spiral and choose a different mental direction, you’re not just changing your mood – you’re physically reshaping your brain, one thought at a time.
This lesson introduces powerful cognitive strategies, grounded in Christian spirituality, for reversing and reframing negative thoughts, in ways that will change both your brain and your life. Let’s get right into it.
In 1961, Air Force Brigadier General Godfrey McHugh, also known by the memorable nickname "God", pitched an idea to President Kennedy. The White House needed a crisis command center, a place where critical information could be filtered and crucial decisions made. Kennedy approved, and within two weeks, a White House bowling alley became the legendary Situation Room.
What if you already had your own situation room? Well, it turns out you do – it sits in the six inches between your ears, processing, evaluating, and deciding, all the time. And like the White House version, your mental command center was designed by God.
Yet, unlike the White House, which maintains strict security protocols, we often let any random thought waltz into our mental situation room. Every worry gets a hearing, every doubt gets a vote. The White House situation room works because it filters the information it considers. Quality control matters, because good decisions depend on reliable information.
You need to apply similar filters to your mental situation room. Effective mental filtering starts with awareness. Monitor your default thoughts for just one day and notice those automatic negative patterns – the self-criticism, the catastrophic predictions, that harsh internal voice. These patterns didn’t appear overnight. They were trained into you through repeated experiences, building what we might call cognitive strongholds that feel impossible to escape.
So, what do you need to do when you notice these thought patterns emerging? Well, Christian thinking offers a powerful filtering framework that the author calls picky thinking. Instead of asking “What would Jesus do?” try asking “What would Jesus think?” Since actions flow from thoughts, transforming our thinking transforms our living. When that inner critic pipes up with thoughts like “You’re hopeless” or “You’ll never change,” challenge it against Scripture’s authority. Your situation room deserves the same security clearance standards as Washington’s – only verified, God-approved information gets through.
Let’s now meet Eric and Megan. Five years married and ready to put down roots, they bought their dream home. They dove into renovations with enthusiasm, tearing down walls and ripping up floors to create their ideal space. Then the aching and sickness began. Sore joints, migraines, brain fog – they felt decades older overnight. Hidden behind those walls was toxic mold, releasing invisible particles every time they opened up the house.
Eric and Megan’s story mirrors what can happen in our own minds. Our mental structures are often underpinned by toxic thoughts that release harmful fumes. We don’t notice we’re absorbing them until they have wrought havoc on our wellbeing, and anxiety, depression, or despair has taken hold.
The apostle Paul recognized this when he urged us to “take your stand against the devil’s schemes.” Satan operates like that hidden mold – unseen but systematically destructive, following the same three-stage contamination pattern every time. We call it the UFO sequence, and once you recognize it, you can stop the poisoning process cold.
First comes the U – untruth. Satan plants a lie, like “You’ll never amount to anything” or “Everyone thinks you’re incompetent.” Yes, it might feel true in the moment, but in reality, it’s poison disguised as insight. If you don’t challenge this immediately, it graduates to UFO stage two: the F for false narrative. Now that single lie becomes your internal soundtrack, playing endlessly. “I always mess things up. I’m destined to fail. Why even try?” The untruth has carved a mental rut so deep you can’t climb out.
This sets up the devastating final stage – O for overreaction. When life presents normal challenges, you don’t respond from truth anymore – you react from that poisoned false narrative. A delayed email becomes proof you’re incompetent. A friend’s distracted response confirms you’re unlikeable. You’re no longer living in reality – you’re now trapped in Satan’s alternate universe.
Your job is to intercept these UFOs before they land. When that first untruth tries to establish a beachhead in your mind, grab it by the collar and march it directly to Jesus. Ask him point-blank: “Is this thought authorized to be here?” His authority dismantles the entire sequence before it can take root.
This may sound strange, but it turns out you’re a lot like a cow. So is your neighbor, your coworker, your best friend, and even your spouse.
What connects us to our bovine buddies? We ruminate. Ever wonder what those cows are doing as they stand peacefully in pastures? They’re chewing their cud – that partially digested feed they swallow, regurgitate, re-chew, and re-swallow in an endless cycle. Chew, swallow, repeat. Ad nauseam.
We mirror this process with our thoughts. We think, rethink, consider, reconsider, ponder, contemplate, deliberate, fixate, and ruminate endlessly. This mental chewing isn’t inherently problematic – we’re designed as thinking beings. The issue emerges when we’re ruminating on toxic thoughts rather than healthy ones. Dwelling on hopeful, God-honoring truths makes us flourish, while churning bitter, negative thoughts makes us bitter and negative.
Think of your mind as a lawn infested with grass burrs – those sticky, painful weeds that cling to everything. Destructive thoughts operate identically, creating predictable patterns that sour moods and embitter hearts. You might attempt quick fixes like positive thinking seminars or motivational books, essentially mowing over the problem. The weeds vanish temporarily, but inevitably return because their root systems remain intact.
God proposes a superior approach: systematic extraction and intentional replanting. While earthly gardeners might forcibly remove weeds, our heavenly Father invites collaboration. He supplies the tools – his Word – but demands our active participation in the uprooting process. Some thought patterns have developed deep root networks over decades, requiring genuine effort to eliminate.
The critical second phase involves replanting with God’s Word. James describes this as receiving “the implanted word” that transforms our inner world like seeds taking root in fertile soil. When destructive thoughts like “I’m worthless” or “Nothing ever works out for me” get uprooted, you must immediately plant scriptural truth in that mental space. Replace “I’m a failure” with “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” Or try substituting “God has forgotten me” with “He will never leave me nor forsake me.” It’s not enough to weed the lawn – you need to nourish it with the word of God.
Okay, you know the three steps for taming your thoughts – practice picky thinking, avoid UFOs, uproot toxic thoughts, and replant your garden with God’s word. Now, let’s look at how you can use them to get out of some common thought ruts, starting with anxiety. It manifests differently for everyone – maybe you’re the person who lies awake catastrophizing about tomorrow’s presentation, or you check your phone compulsively for bad news, or your stomach churns every time you hear an unexpected knock at the door. But God offers a way out of this rut.
Understanding how anxiety operates is crucial to breaking free from it. Anxiety hijacks that UFO pattern we discussed, but in a particularly insidious way. It starts with an untruth that feels completely reasonable in the moment, usually along the lines of “Something terrible is about to happen – and I won’t be able to handle it.” This initial worry then grows into a false narrative that plays on repeat, like “I’m powerless against whatever disaster is coming my way.” Finally, the exhausting overreaction arrives with thoughts like “I must anticipate and control every possible negative outcome to keep myself safe.” Unlike animals who naturally return to baseline once immediate danger passes, we humans get mentally stuck, rehearsing threats that may never actually materialize.
This cycle becomes self-reinforcing because anxiety fundamentally tricks us into believing the world is spinning dangerously out of control.
But here’s the thing: you can break this destructive pattern by working with your brain’s natural ability to form new neural pathways. The key is challenging that initial anxious thought before it gains momentum – when worry comes knocking at your mental door, pause and ask whether this thought is based on current evidence or whether you’re catastrophizing about something that hasn’t happened. Taking these anxious thoughts immediately to God in prayer also interrupts the spiral. Remember that God controls the universe down to every falling sparrow. When you submit to His mercy, your anxiety loses its power.
Perhaps most powerfully, you can systematically uproot complaints and replant them with gratitude, since your brain literally cannot process anxiety and genuine thankfulness at the same time. This practice gradually rewires your neural pathways, strengthening rational thinking centers while calming your brain’s panic responses, creating lasting change rather than just temporary relief.
If the emotions were famous athletes then guilt would be Muhammad Ali. Coming at you with that one-two punch of could’ve and should’ve, getting into the ring with guilt can leave you totally knocked out.
Guilt begins with a real transgression – something you actually did wrong. You said something hurtful, acted selfishly, broke a promise, or violated your conscience. That initial pang of guilt is actually healthy – it’s your moral compass working properly, alerting you that you’ve stepped outside God’s design for your life.
Picture guilt as a heavy backpack you carry everywhere. At first, you barely notice the weight, but over time that pack becomes unbearable. You start avoiding certain paths because you know you can’t handle the climb. Eventually, you’re so focused on managing the burden that you forget what it feels like to walk freely. This creates the perfect conditions for a guilt UFO to circle overhead. The untruth whispers, “I’m beyond God’s grace.” That grows into the false narrative that either God is unfair to you or you’re unfit for him. Your guilt has become shame.
But guilt and shame are siblings, not twins. Guilt tells you when you’ve done something wrong – shame tells you something is wrong with you. But God wants to use healthy guilt to guide you toward him – it’s meant to be a temporary alarm that drives you to confession and restoration. Shame, however, is designed to keep you trapped in self-condemnation. While guilt says “I made a mistake,” shame declares “I am a mistake.” Shame forms an apt acronym: Self-Hatred At My Expense. It’s the voice that tells you that you’re fundamentally flawed, hopeless, and unworthy of love or forgiveness. This is never God’s voice.
The antidote is confession. First, agree about your sin’s reality without minimizing or comparing yourself to others. God’s standard is perfection, and we all fall short. Second, agree about the remedy – Jesus personally carried our sins so we could be forgiven. Third, celebrate sin’s complete removal. When we confess, God doesn’t just forgive – he cleanses us from all wrongdoing.
Have you ever spent time with a toddler? Life’s a crack-up to them. Everything from splashing in a bathtub to blowing dandelions makes them laugh until they can’t breathe, then laugh again. How long has it been since you really laughed or found joy in life? If the answer is longer than you’d like, then it’s time to confront the thought ruts that leave you struggling to find joy.
Studies show only 33 percent of Americans describe themselves as happy. That’s hardly surprising. We keep searching for joy in all the wrong places – commercials promise it’ll come with the right hand cream, mattress, or car. But authentic joy isn’t found in circumstances – it’s anchored in something deeper.
Jesus offers a different kind of joy – courageous joy that doesn’t depend on approval, possessions, or people’s loyalty. Even his own family didn’t believe in him, he had nowhere to lay his head, and his closest friends betrayed him. Yet Scripture says, “for the joy set before Him He endured the cross.” His joy was unshakable because it was rooted in his relationship with the Father, not in changing circumstances.
The beautiful truth? Joy is a skill we can develop through neuroplasticity. Just as muscle builders develop impressive physiques by lifting weights, we can develop brighter outlooks by practicing thought management. When Jeremiah felt overwhelmed, he made a conscious decision, proclaiming “This I call to mind, and therefore I have hope: The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases.”
To implement these truths in your own life, consider three practical steps. First, assess your joy level honestly – are you focusing on what’s not happening instead of what is happening? Next, believe that joy is possible – problems have no more power over us than we allow them to have. Finally, call out for help. You’re just an answered prayer away from discovering that your collapsed dreams might become the foundation for something even better. Ask God to replace your circumstance-dependent joy with courageous, contagious joy that can’t be taken away.
In this lesson to Tame Your Thoughts by Max Lucado, you’ve learned that three Christian-based cognitive strategies enable mental transformation.
First, you discovered that picky thinking works by filtering thoughts like a mental air traffic controller – and helps you challenge negative patterns against biblical truth. Once you’ve set up your filter, you need to avoid UFOs – where untruths become false narratives leading to overreaction – by taking destructive thoughts to Jesus for authorization. Finally, you’ve got to uproot toxic thought patterns and immediately replant them with Scripture. When taken together, these neuroplasticity-based techniques can rewire the brain and address struggles like anxiety, guilt, and lost joy.
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