Once Upon a Stranger by Gillian Sandstrom The Science of How Small Talk Can Add Up to a Big Life
What's it about? Once Upon a Stranger (2026) makes the case that brief, low-stakes exchanges with strangers are an antidote to the loneliness epidemic of modern life. Drawing on original research and personal anecdotes, it shows how even the smallest moments of connection – with a barista, a fellow commuter, a stranger in an elevator – can generate joy, curiosity, and a deeper sense of belonging. Narrated by…. You’re standing in line at a coffee shop. The person in front of you is wearing a t-shirt from a city you once visited. You notice it, feel a small flicker of curiosity – and then look back down at your phone. Sound familiar? Most of us have been there. And most of us have decided, without really thinking about it, that talking to that stranger just isn’t worth it. They probably don’t want to be bothered. It’ll be awkward. What would you even say? Better to keep to yourself. But what if that instinct is wrong – and what if it’s costing you more than you realize? Gillian...