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Lessons from the Book πŸ“š You are A Badass at making Money πŸ’°

Define your own path to Riches   “The people around you will tell you what you should and shouldn't want, no matter how you feel about it.  If you don't have a mind of your own, you will find yourself pandering to their opinions and staying stuck in a rut for years — or a lifetime. Everybody arrives on the planet with unique desires, gifts, and talents.  As you journey through life, your job is to find out what yours are, to nurture and cause them to bloom into the most authentic version of yourself.  To do this, you must be “rich” — able to afford all the things and the experiences that you require to fully actualize your most authentic life.” Money πŸ’° is the energy that will help you discover your talents and realize your desires. “No one, and that includes you, is exempt from getting rich. You live in a world where nearly everything involved in your growth, happiness, and self-expression costs money. All you need to do is get a clear handle on what you want in lif...

Lessons from the Book πŸ“– declutter your mind

Your thoughts πŸ’­ have the power to determine your actions. “To survive negative thoughts and continue living a satisfying life, you need to be able to recognize negative thoughts when they come. By identifying the negative thoughts and their root causes, you are one step away from being overwhelmed by them. You will also realize that you have a better grip on your mental health and general wellbeing when you know your stressors. Thoughts are a natural part of life, they are your inner monologue, and they are there all the time, whether you’re conscious of them or not. Scott and Davenport suggest that you try to study your thoughts — their frequency, content, and other factors — you’ll then see how they add up to a constant stream of chatter. The reason it is important for you to identify and find a way to control your thoughts is that they determine your actions. Negative thoughts can cause you to make a wrong decision or even miss out on life-changing opportunities. The constant chatt...

Lessons from the Book Fall πŸ“‰ and Rise πŸ“ˆ

What’s in it for me? Go behind the headlines to meet the real people affected by the September 11 attacks. The tragic events of September 11, 2001, shook the world. Nineteen al-Qaeda terrorists seized control of four commercial airliners. Three of those airplanes hit their targets: the World Trade Center in New York City and the Pentagon in Washington, DC. The fourth crashed into a Pennsylvania field after passengers heroically attempted to retake control. The attack resulted in 2,977 fatalities and over 25,000 injuries. But these are just numbers. As 9/11 recedes into history, it’s easy to forget that these numbers represent very real people. Each and every one of the victims and survivors of these attacks has a story to tell. Some of these stories ended in tragedy, with families and friends continuing to mourn the loss of their loved ones. Some are stories of great courage and heroism, with first responders and ordinary people risking their lives to help those in need. Some are simpl...

Lessons from The Art of Work

Maybe we all have the power to turn our lives into significant stories if we start to see our difficulties as opportunities.” There are three things that give meaning to life: first, a project; second, a significant relationship; and third, a redemptive view of suffering. “What we all want is to know our time on earth has meant something. if we want true satisfaction, we have to rise above the pettiness of our own desires and do what is required of us. "A calling comes when we embrace the pain, not avoid it.” “In any great narrative, there is a moment when a character must decide to become more than a bystander." “Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come. —UNKNOWN” “The worst way to get a mentor is to go find one. The best way is to see the one that’s already there.” “Regardless of natural talent or the lack thereof, every person has the ability to improve themselves.” “First, you hear the call. It m...

Lessons from the book Willpower the Instinct

“Lack of willpower is a true epidemic in our world today” “Kelly McGonigal, Ph.D. teaches a hugely popular Stanford course that attracts people from all walks of life. Whenever she mentions that she is about to talk about willpower, everyone groans and says they really need more of it. It seems that a lack of willpower is something we all deal with! How much willpower do you think you have? Don’t worry if yours is in low supply, as there is plenty of information coming your way to help you change that situation. Willpower gives you the power to control everything in your life, including your emotions, your attention, finances, health, relationships, and success in your career. For that reason, learning how to improve your levels of willpower is a must–do. The fact that you struggle with willpower shouldn't make you feel bad. The American Psychological Association states that Americans regularly name low levels of willpower as a reason why they often don't meet their long–term a...

lessons from the book how to analyze people

Overview Daniel Spade’s How to Analyze People (2019) showcases the 13 laws of manipulation, and offers 7 strategies that teach how to read body language and deal with a manipulator. Learn how to spot the manipulators in your life—or whether you've been guilty of using these methods yourself—by examining and analyzing the communication clues in your interactions. Once you see the signs of manipulation, you can examine the relationships in your life and make educated decisions about them. You’ll be able to exercise your right to be treated with respect, and reclaim an equal footing with your spouse. You can avoid being extorted or inadvertently manipulated if you can read people's body language and see through manipulative remarks. You will be less prone to be affected and motivated by the intentions of others, and more receptive to opportunities around you. 13 Laws of Manipulation Your mind is managed or controlled in some way during every waking moment of your life. There's...